Posted Oct 28, 2011 18:36
Before you blab on any further, you should first have a look at my history here on LLM guide. I've been coming to this forum for quite a long time now and have always tried my best to help people out.
Ok, you're right that the thread talks about entry requirements. But have you actually had a look at how poorly written the initial post was? I'm not trying to hurt the person who wrote it nor am I trying to be rude. But we gotta be realistic here! If you can't manage to write a two-sentence post properly and you can't get more than 5 in the written exam, you may get offers from a few "decent" law schools, but you're not gonna be able to keep up with the course. Not even in a decent law school.
Im not a native English speaker and Im sure I make plenty of mistakes when Im either writing or speaking. But I think Ive learned enough to get around pretty fine.
Furthermore, why on earth are you gonna spend time and money on a "decent" university? When you settle for "decent" right at first, you're not pushing yourself to the limit. Why dont you put time and effort on learning the language before you apply? Learn the language and aim high. Go for the best universities around. If you still fail after that, maybe you can start thinking about decent universities.
If people come here just to hear compliments, then Im sorry. But Im actually trying to help. I dont think telling the guy: Hey, dont worry. With your 5 you can get offers from x, y and z (being x, y and z universities that will add nothing to your CV or your life and will only make you waste time and money) is the best way to go about helping people.
I was just telling the truth. I wasnt being rude to either the original poster or Flori. If thats how my post came across, Im sorry. But Im not gonna lie and they the guy hes got a shot when I truly believe he doesnt.
My first post here on LLM Guide was asking people what they thought about my chances of getting into LLM programs. And Im truly grateful to those that replied honestly, saying that based on what Id told them I was very unlikely to get offers from Cambridge and Oxford. I wasn't pissed off at them for that.
Now, if you still want to barge in and pretend to be Mr. I know it all, fine. Be my guest. Ive finished my LLM anyways. The only reason Im here is to try to pass forward a bit of what Ive learned regarding applications, requirements and the LLM. If the only people around to read these posts are like you, who want nothing but to butt in and talk bulls***t, then Im done.
Wow...I actually wanted to challenge your arguments, but your threat that you would leave the forum if you faced any more criticism has completely caught me off guard. Plus, I feel kind of sad that only Head2 has answered your call for support. Thus, I'm even more inclined to give in and join the jubilant crowd...
But enough with this chit-chat.
It's perfectly fine to tell someone that, in your view, he should aim for a top notch university. It's perfectly fine to tell someone that his level of English might not be sufficient to follow an average llm class. And it's perfectly fine to tell someone "the truth", i.e. to frankly point out any hindrances on his way to obtaining a master's degree. I have never advocated a different approach.
The only problem is: You did none of that. You did not answer the question like this: "Well, you could get a master's degree from an average university, but you should keep in mind that, regarding your level of English, you might have problems following the classes. Also, you might not benefit from this particular llm in your future career. That's why I recommend that you buckle up and aim for a very good university." On the contrary, you made that decision for him by telling him that he is going to get nowwhere in the UK, of course without mentioning any of the points which you produced later on to substantiate your view. That's what was wrong with your statement, at least in my view.
I simply pointed out that flaw. Due to time constraints, it may not have been the most diplomatic way of putting it, but it was still way more friendly than your answer to the original post and, of course, the answer you have given to me. I have not pretended to be "Mr. I know it all", and I have not intended to offend you. Furthermore, I certainly did not give a general evaluation of the overall quality of your answers on this forum. Finally, I neither did criticise you in general nor was I rude. I'm afraid the same does not apply to you.
Your reference to the amount of time you spend on this forum does not back up your view, and it certainly does not justify the quality of your particular answer. It's not even an argument. The same applies to your personal insults. That and the fact that you act like a prima donna makes it hard to take your view seriously.
Maybe you had a bad day or something, who knows. Anyway, from my point of view, there's no point in debating this any further.
Bye
I didn't even read through your entire post... I rushed through it and decided to reply straight away.
I didn't threat to leave the forum... all I said is that if there's no-one around that actually needs help, but only people that act like they know it all, then there was no point in coming back.
I know my presence here is insignificant, just as yours and everybody else's also are... this thing will continue regardless of any of us...
But as it turns out, I found some people that needed a hand and replied to several posts with actual advice yesterday. So I've decided to stick around for a bit longer... don't need anyone's support. I don't need nor do I want people to write anything supporting me (though I appreciate Head2 showing his/her support).
I don't even know you... you don't even know me... You started being rude for no reason and I simply replied in the same way. Who knows... if we knew each other in person we could even be friends...
However, I do have to agree with you on three things:
i. maybe you didn't mean to be rude, but that's how your message came across at least in my opinion; ergo, my rude reply.
ii. if you'd written your post the way you just did this last one, I would've actually agreed with you that maybe I should've elaborated more before saying he'd get nowhere with that grade... instead of nowhere I shouldve mentioned some universities names couldve said also that English isnt only an entry requirement, but actually something you need for the course. Anyways, couldve done a million things different.
iii. there's no point in discussing this any further.
And just to show that Im willing to stop this nonsense and that maybe I've misinterpreted your rudeness in the first post, I'm just gonna ignore the explicit rudeness you've shown in your last message and, hopefully, end this pointless discussion once and for all.
<blockquote><blockquote>Before you blab on any further, you should first have a look at my history here on LLM guide. I've been coming to this forum for quite a long time now and have always tried my best to help people out.
Ok, you're right that the thread talks about entry requirements. But have you actually had a look at how poorly written the initial post was? I'm not trying to hurt the person who wrote it nor am I trying to be rude. But we gotta be realistic here! If you can't manage to write a two-sentence post properly and you can't get more than 5 in the written exam, you may get offers from a few "decent" law schools, but you're not gonna be able to keep up with the course. Not even in a decent law school.
Im not a native English speaker and Im sure I make plenty of mistakes when Im either writing or speaking. But I think Ive learned enough to get around pretty fine.
Furthermore, why on earth are you gonna spend time and money on a "decent" university? When you settle for "decent" right at first, you're not pushing yourself to the limit. Why dont you put time and effort on learning the language before you apply? Learn the language and aim high. Go for the best universities around. If you still fail after that, maybe you can start thinking about decent universities.
If people come here just to hear compliments, then Im sorry. But Im actually trying to help. I dont think telling the guy: Hey, dont worry. With your 5 you can get offers from x, y and z (being x, y and z universities that will add nothing to your CV or your life and will only make you waste time and money) is the best way to go about helping people.
I was just telling the truth. I wasnt being rude to either the original poster or Flori. If thats how my post came across, Im sorry. But Im not gonna lie and they the guy hes got a shot when I truly believe he doesnt.
My first post here on LLM Guide was asking people what they thought about my chances of getting into LLM programs. And Im truly grateful to those that replied honestly, saying that based on what Id told them I was very unlikely to get offers from Cambridge and Oxford. I wasn't pissed off at them for that.
Now, if you still want to barge in and pretend to be Mr. I know it all, fine. Be my guest. Ive finished my LLM anyways. The only reason Im here is to try to pass forward a bit of what Ive learned regarding applications, requirements and the LLM. If the only people around to read these posts are like you, who want nothing but to butt in and talk bulls***t, then Im done.
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Wow...I actually wanted to challenge your arguments, but your threat that you would leave the forum if you faced any more criticism has completely caught me off guard. Plus, I feel kind of sad that only Head2 has answered your call for support. Thus, I'm even more inclined to give in and join the jubilant crowd...
But enough with this chit-chat.
It's perfectly fine to tell someone that, in your view, he should aim for a top notch university. It's perfectly fine to tell someone that his level of English might not be sufficient to follow an average llm class. And it's perfectly fine to tell someone "the truth", i.e. to frankly point out any hindrances on his way to obtaining a master's degree. I have never advocated a different approach.
The only problem is: You did none of that. You did not answer the question like this: "Well, you could get a master's degree from an average university, but you should keep in mind that, regarding your level of English, you might have problems following the classes. Also, you might not benefit from this particular llm in your future career. That's why I recommend that you buckle up and aim for a very good university." On the contrary, you made that decision for him by telling him that he is going to get nowwhere in the UK, of course without mentioning any of the points which you produced later on to substantiate your view. That's what was wrong with your statement, at least in my view.
I simply pointed out that flaw. Due to time constraints, it may not have been the most diplomatic way of putting it, but it was still way more friendly than your answer to the original post and, of course, the answer you have given to me. I have not pretended to be "Mr. I know it all", and I have not intended to offend you. Furthermore, I certainly did not give a general evaluation of the overall quality of your answers on this forum. Finally, I neither did criticise you in general nor was I rude. I'm afraid the same does not apply to you.
Your reference to the amount of time you spend on this forum does not back up your view, and it certainly does not justify the quality of your particular answer. It's not even an argument. The same applies to your personal insults. That and the fact that you act like a prima donna makes it hard to take your view seriously.
Maybe you had a bad day or something, who knows. Anyway, from my point of view, there's no point in debating this any further.
Bye</blockquote>
I didn't even read through your entire post... I rushed through it and decided to reply straight away.
I didn't threat to leave the forum... all I said is that if there's no-one around that actually needs help, but only people that act like they know it all, then there was no point in coming back.
I know my presence here is insignificant, just as yours and everybody else's also are... this thing will continue regardless of any of us...
But as it turns out, I found some people that needed a hand and replied to several posts with actual advice yesterday. So I've decided to stick around for a bit longer... don't need anyone's support. I don't need nor do I want people to write anything supporting me (though I appreciate Head2 showing his/her support).
I don't even know you... you don't even know me... You started being rude for no reason and I simply replied in the same way. Who knows... if we knew each other in person we could even be friends...
However, I do have to agree with you on three things:
i. maybe you didn't mean to be rude, but that's how your message came across at least in my opinion; ergo, my rude reply.
ii. if you'd written your post the way you just did this last one, I would've actually agreed with you that maybe I should've elaborated more before saying he'd get nowhere with that grade... instead of nowhere I shouldve mentioned some universities names
couldve said also that English isnt only an entry requirement, but actually something you need for the course
. Anyways, couldve done a million things different.
iii. there's no point in discussing this any further.
And just to show that Im willing to stop this nonsense and that maybe I've misinterpreted your rudeness in the first post, I'm just gonna ignore the explicit rudeness you've shown in your last message and, hopefully, end this pointless discussion once and for all.